Man Law #21 – Maintain The Mystery…
The woman needs to be kept on her toes and unsure of where she stands with you especially at the beginning. If she gets TOO comfortable with you always being there, she will become bored and lose interest faster than you might think. This is simply another way of saying “showing too much interest is a bad thing…”. If she can add you to the daily rotation of guys that she is dating without any “progression” in the relationship, she is
If she knows you will always be there, no matter how ridiculous she acts, she will leave you for the guy who didn't ask her out last Friday...Maintain the Mystery...
most likely taking you for granted.
She needs to get the impression that at ANY time…at ANNNY time, you can leave and go about your life. You need to have options. This doesn’t mean you have 4-5 women that you are dating, it means that you have things that are important to you that you are not willing to waste your time playing around with her for…
this also lends back to the need to have her only take up “10%” of your time. keep them wanting more…
I think this works both ways. As soon as a guy realizes a girl is there for him 24-7, he gets super turned off.
I think women do this whole “play hard to get thing” a little to readily… It’s as if they want him to jump through hoolahoop after hoolahoop while she figures out if she likes him or not…24-7 is a little bit of a turn off but if planning a date with the other person involves a 20 minute discussion because you both are putting other things in front of the other person, that’s not a turn on either…