Comments on: Man Law #21 – Maintain The Mystery…

By: So E.Z. a Caveman Could Do It

So E.Z. a Caveman Could Do It — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 03:44:50 +0000

Why do we love mystery novels and movies? Because we get involved with the story, the experience, we want to know how it unfolds. A crucial part of mystery is creating suspense and tension. You just don’t know what to expect, but you’re eager to find out, but not all at once. It’s like taking the time to savor a good meal. Every little bite counts, and you want to make the moment last forever, not be over in one giant gulp.

Maintaining an air of mystery sparks curiosity in others. We’re all nosy sons-of-bitches, which is why facebook is so popular. We want to know about everybody’s personal lives, compare it to our own, find out what secrets are being hidden, see people for who they really are and not the masks we put on. Being mysterious compells her to find out more about you.

By: Ethan Bishop

Ethan Bishop — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:33:21 +0000

I think women do this whole “play hard to get thing” a little to readily… It’s as if they want him to jump through hoolahoop after hoolahoop while she figures out if she likes him or not…24-7 is a little bit of a turn off but if planning a date with the other person involves a 20 minute discussion because you both are putting other things in front of the other person, that’s not a turn on either…

By: Lola

Lola — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:53:42 +0000

I think this works both ways. As soon as a guy realizes a girl is there for him 24-7, he gets super turned off.

By: DJ Long

DJ Long — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 12:36:22 +0000

this also lends back to the need to have her only take up “10%” of your time. keep them wanting more…