Comments on: Man Law #41 – Initiate the Approach; Initiate the Departure.

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Tue, 16 Nov 2010 02:20:34 +0000

[...] Man Law #41 – Initiate the Approach; Initiate the Departure [...]

By: So E.Z. a Caveman Could Do It

So E.Z. a Caveman Could Do It — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 03:17:36 +0000

Approaching takes balls, so does leaving in the middle of the conversation. It shows you’re a man that does what he wants and feels is right. No over-analyzing. No worries as to how you’re being percieved. You’re living in the moment and don’t care what happens next. Would it be nice to go from bar to the bedroom? Of course, but if it doesn’t happen, you don’t give a f**k.

So why don’t more women approach dudes? For a number of reasons. First of all society has made it the norm for MEN to do the approaching. It sucks, its unfair…its life. Besides man/woman traditions, making the first move is a risky move. Approaching someone you’re interested in puts you in a position of weakness as much as it shows your strength and initiative. She’s thinking about what you’re really after, why have you started the conversation, and usually girls will think that its because you find them physically attractive. This puts the ball in her court from the first sentence you utter. She can then immediately choose to accept your advances or reject you on the spot.

I find that the plausible deniability theory to be valid. Women HATE being blamed or caught for wrongdoings. They love to think of themselves as being talented enough to get away with sh*t using their subtlety and charms, being sneaky about things. If she has a boyfriend and starts even innocently talking with another dude, she has “cheater” stamped on your forhead by her bf or girlfriends.

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Man Law #61: Semper Momentus Maximus! « The Unbreakable Man Laws — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:43:14 +0000

[...] keep the energy going in a positive direction and if the conversation seems like its dying, follow Man Law #41 Initiate the Approach, Initiate the Departure. Remove yourself from the situation and come back when the energy is back on an upward [...]

By: DJ Long

DJ Long — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 16:33:44 +0000

Personally, I’m more than ok with women coming up and initiating communication, etc. And I know for many men out there, being approached by the woman makes them feel a bit moer at ease. They’ll still stumble over themselves trying sound intelligent and interesting, but the hard task of starting conversation is over. Now, they just need to maintain that interaction.
But we all know our society is a bit messed up and lacks and lags in many areas. Hopefully, and I already see it in the youth I work with, that more and more of those gender-based expectations are being removed or bent. Truthfully, if you like someone or think they’re cute, just tell them. I do. Even random women on the street as i pass by and will most likely never see again and I keep moving, hopefully bringing a smile to her face and a moment of goodness in her day.

By: Ethan Bishop

Ethan Bishop — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 23:59:50 +0000

D, thanks for posting. I found this article and thought you might find it interesting. It does not dispute your viewpoint. It rather points out why guys like direct approaches: http://www.spring.org.uk/2009/06/why-men-prefer-direct-pick-up-lines.php