Comments on: Man Theory – Red Flags From Last Night, Part I.

By: Man Law #79 – “Anything you say Can and WILL be used against you…” « The Unbreakable Man Laws

Thu, 24 Jun 2010 02:56:07 +0000

[...] to change.” At this point, it’s safe to say that you’ve passed all of the “Red Flags From Last Night ,” however, your job is FAR from over. In fact, in many ways, it is only the beginning. Just [...]

By: DJ Long

DJ Long — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:26:52 +0000

Elle – I like your style. Although, I’m sure the guy didn’t mind that you had let slip the ex comment because he got to be touched by you. Besides, everyone will slip up from time to time, especially when making a reference to a past experience, be it positive or negative. (albeit a positive rememberance is less worrisome)
Overall, I feel that if a person uses and trusts their “gut” and intuition, they shouldn’t have to worry too much. I say this because they’ll hopefully run through their personal checklist and refrain from being becoming a comment on this blog.

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Red Flags From Last Night: Red Flags Check List « The Unbreakable Man Laws — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:27:10 +0000

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By: Elle

Elle — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 01:05:34 +0000

Both men and women make mistakes on dates. I know I’m guilty of it. I was on a first date once and we were talking about a restaurant we both liked and I accidently mentioned that my ex and I had been there before, it kind of just slipped out. I tried to cover by looking in my dates eyes, touching his arm while telling him he had hot arms right (he did) after to word “ex” left my mouth (which worked very well fyi).
But I agree, to go on and on or deliberately mention an ex on the first date is a huge mistake. I always (try to haha)follow the rule people shouldn’t mention an ex even exists until at least the third date and the guy should ask and the girls response should be honest but as vague and positive as possible. Is this correct?

By: DJ Long

DJ Long — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 04:03:15 +0000

Good stuff… And… I will say that many of these Red Flags are not relegated to only men. There are many, many women who have these same habits – talking about the last guy she dated and “how he wasn’t ready” or getting sloppy drunk because “it’s been 4 months since she last got some” and is nervous. I personally have carried a number of ladies home, poured them into their beds (sometimes after holding their hair and cleaning up the “missed” portions) before sleeping in a chair or on the couch paying attention to them just in case, to make sure they don’t die (although i’m sure in the morning they wished they had).