http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/2009/11/23/mantheorydatingparadigmshif/ It's A War Out There Gentlemen, and the Women are Winning! Wed, 09 May 2012 19:21:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/2009/11/23/mantheorydatingparadigmshif/#comment-214 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 03:19:02 +0000 http://30unbreakablemanlaws.wordpress.com/?p=2224#comment-214 “Dating” is hard to define in my world especially. Being in a profession where I can be here one moment and then gone for any length of time (up to 6 or 7 months at a time), makes it hard to meet women for anything other than an occassional hook-up or something short term. But even progressing to the short term “exclusiveness” can be work. When I was younger, the random hook ups were easier because you can play on the fact that the girl may not be looking for much more on a deeper level. However, in my current age and time and place/status in life I’d like more from an interaction. Of course, initial meetings may be superficial and on the surface, then there is the task of getting just below the surface. Another factor thrown in the mix is the internet and how that can speed things along as you no longer need to be face to face to learn more about someone. (And i’m not talking about the stalker action sof googling that person or checking out there FB before your “officially friends” either.
Lately though, my “dating” occurrances have been the result of meeting a friend’s friend/acquaintance. Starting off as a casual connection and possibly turn into a “date” out on the town. Then it just either formulates into something (with sexual interlude potential) or it fizzles into just being “friends” or some strange aknowlegement of one another in public. So that’s my take.

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