Comments on: Man Law #66 – Build Social Insurance! http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/2009/12/07/manlaw66/ It's A War Out There Gentlemen, and the Women are Winning! Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:30:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: DJ Long http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/2009/12/07/manlaw66/#comment-234 Wed, 09 Dec 2009 16:08:14 +0000 http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/?p=2361#comment-234 To answer the reason for acknowledging the male or males in a group, even if he is of different sexual persuasion, is because of primal roots. He is seen as the male protector of the group. If an unfavorable suitor attempts to infiltrate their “pack” he’ll step forward and defend his women, especially the “doe” you’re hunting after. I’ve been this guy in many settings and signs may be subtle but screaming at you causing you to divert from your plan. It could be she stands closer, they hold hands, touch (not sexually, but in a familiar manner). No matter how, they’re telling the male to go elsewhere. Basically, he is ready to cock block at the slightest sign of distress from his “harem.”
Once the niceties are complete and your “allowed” to be in the “pride’s” presence. Definitely be sure to engage, gently at first, in the conversation that is taking place. Make confident, but not overbearing, eye-contact with everyone. when you speak, just as if speaking to a large group, try to include everyone in what you’re saying and look at them while they speak. There were a number of other laws that kick into play about listening and remembering segments of the conversation for later when you are able to find the lady of interest away from the pack. If she is in tandem, be sure not to single the other one out, especially if she too is attractive. And part of not asking the friend if your interest is single is because the one you aren’t hunting for may find you cute/sexy/attractive and want you for herself. If this is the case, she may talk you down to the other girl, thus all but ruining any chance you had.
Throughout, either situation – big or small group/pair – be engaging and thoughtful without seeming to be cocky. Playing down some of what you do, will add to showing a humble side. But still talk with passion and drive about the importance of what you do and how it helps to define that portion of you. Later on, slip your card to the lady of interest. If she calls, “Bravo.” And, if she doesn’t no loss, perhaps she’ll pass the card to another equally wonderful lady, or at least help you get business for your money making job. either way it’s a win.

]]> By: TrueMan http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/2009/12/07/manlaw66/#comment-233 Tue, 08 Dec 2009 01:54:20 +0000 http://unbreakablemanlaws.com/?p=2361#comment-233 Very good post. Some guys just address a few people, making him seem rude and turning off the rest.

It’s also good to see another man on the blogspace. It’s good to see I’m not alone.

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