Comments on: Man Law #68 – If You Don’t See The Door, Build it.

By: Ethan Bishop

Ethan Bishop — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 00:54:47 +0000

Thanks for the post DJ Long! I’ve probably heard the song that you mentioned and just not recognize the quote by itself. It captures the essence of the Law. If you expect things to get done, don’t look towards others to figure it out for you. A man and woman as part of a team looking out for each others interest is a powerful combination and a force not to be messed with!

By: DJ Long

DJ Long — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 02:59:34 +0000

As always, great insight to the necessity of taking a moment to find calm in the wake of disaster. Being proactive and not so much reactive to the situations of life. I too am in search of a women who doesn’t need me in her life, but wants me there because, as ne-yo sang on the fabo hook, “I’m a movement by myself, but a force when we’re together. I’m good all by myself, but you, you make me better.” The profoundity of the cacthy tune speaks volumes of truth. Some people out there need to feel provided for and they pair with those who need to provide. Others perfer the supported/supporting relationship where the role alternates in a cohesion of balance. I prefer the latter. I want to augment the life another human who has her own goals, drive, determination and supports my own and together we have common goals. The goal of growing together, building our relationship. Celebrating in one another’s triumphs, but also understanding there comes time when one must put their desires after those of their partner. in part it goes back to being and having confidence, it alone is the ultimate aphrodisiac…

By: Ethan Bishop

Ethan Bishop — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:52:00 +0000

Thank you Autumn. You were the inspiration behind one of the comments. IF you can figure out which one!

By: Ethan Bishop

Ethan Bishop — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:51:23 +0000

Thanks for mentioning the part about being a part of the success. That’s a great way of looking at it too!

By: vhs

vhs — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:33:15 +0000

This law is without question is what women want. I am a woman, I have a whirlwind of a lifestyle that is intricately planned and sought after for my own future, and the last person that I want to be a part of it is someone who doesn’t meet those same standards. When I find someone who doesn’t dwell on every day obstacles, I am immediately attracted to them, regardless of their overall physical attraction or money in their wallet. Why waste time with people who aren’t proactive about their own life? Jesus, we only have one.

I also like the idea that women want to be a part of the success, i.e. throwing rocks while you throw the spears. It’s more that you both want to build each other up or create the same positive outcomes, and being around the same sort of energy will get you both what you want.