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Man Law #27 – The Victorian Principle – Nothing makes a woman happier than telling you “YOU’RE WRONG” and that “I’m Different”…
STAND YOUR GROUND Gentlemen. Although she will most likely not listen to any reasoning that you have to say, do NOT just apologize immediately and give in to her. Of course, she is different. She has come to her conclusions and opinions on life, just like you, based on what she has seen and her experiences. Listen to her views, but stand your ground, state your opinion, and if necessary shield your face if she’s a slapper…
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Now, when she calls you out on being “wrong”, she MOST LIKELY has a lot to say… She might say “You’re Wrong” or “That’s BS” and give you the silent treatment for a bit but the truth is…she wants you to keep asking her questions to draw the answer out of her… This can be tough. You have to create an atmosphere that shows that you will be receptive to what she has to say before she’ll share her answer or why she feels that way. If she truly thinks that you won’t listen, she will not talk.
Even if you "win" the argument...you will "lose" the war...
(Editorial Note: This lesson has been named “The Victorian Principle” after a lovely, young woman, who found it necessary to be the first one to tell me that I was wrong after posting a Man Law that she did not agree with…she did it so often that I formed Man Law #27 and named it in her honor. )
Man Law #26 – STFU and Let Her Talk…
It is not necessary to do ALL the talking in a conversation. All you need to remember is that to a women, the most INTERESTING topic in the world, is herself… The last thing she wants to do is listen to her girlfriends bitch, moan and complain about the men in their life and all of their problems…that’s where you come in my friend. Admittedly, this can be hard to do,
Her goal is to drive you crazy...the way she does this is through talking...talking...and more talking...Once she has broken you down, you are easy to control...Her Mission has been Accomplished...
so you always want to make sure that if you are at a bar, to place her directly in front of a TV. That way, once she REALLY gets rolling, you can glance up at a UFC highlight and still pretend to listen…Periodically nod your head in agreement with what she has to say….Don’t worry, she’s not going any where with the conversation…
(Editorial Note: The first time I posted this Man Law on Facebook, I received immediate negative feedback…If you need to know NOT to watch television or ignore her while she is talking, then you need more help with women than I can provide…)
Active listening is a skill. You might not remember EVERY word she has to say, but if you keep asking questions and getting her to talk that is a good sign…You want to share very little about yourself unless she ask and even then, don’t go into your life story and how you were beaten up as a little kid and your parents left you in a grocery store…she DOES.NOT.CARE. She wants you to turn the conversation around and focus it back on her…
Man Law#25 – Right from the start, the man needs to set an upbeat pace to the conversation. He needs to be ON.
If she starts attributing you to a low energy individual, she will get bored really easily…If you can’t think of a topic and feel the energy dying, “smile” and leave the conversation altogether, even in mid-sentence if necessary…you can apologize later by saying “I was falling asleep…”.Warning: Might not get you a second date if you two are alone though…Use this pull-away tactic at your own risk…
In all seriousness, it’s a great idea to have an energy drink, work out, and generally get pumped up prior to going out at night or on a date. I typically leave the discussion topics to come naturally but some buddies of mine used to go as far as writing down on a note card interesting topics…Whatever works for you to keep the conversation going – light, playful, lively, humorous at first…don’t get into discussing abortion, religion, and politics on your first few dates. There will be plenty of time to talk about these things in the future if the two of you decide to continue seeing each other…
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