Man Law #26 – STFU and Let Her Talk…
It is not necessary to do ALL the talking in a conversation. All you need to remember is that to a women, the most INTERESTING topic in the world, is herself… The last thing she wants to do is listen to her girlfriends bitch, moan and complain about the men in their life and all of their problems…that’s where you come in my friend. Admittedly, this can be hard to do,
Her goal is to drive you crazy...the way she does this is through talking...talking...and more talking...Once she has broken you down, you are easy to control...Her Mission has been Accomplished...
so you always want to make sure that if you are at a bar, to place her directly in front of a TV. That way, once she REALLY gets rolling, you can glance up at a UFC highlight and still pretend to listen…Periodically nod your head in agreement with what she has to say….Don’t worry, she’s not going any where with the conversation…
(Editorial Note: The first time I posted this Man Law on Facebook, I received immediate negative feedback…If you need to know NOT to watch television or ignore her while she is talking, then you need more help with women than I can provide…)
Active listening is a skill. You might not remember EVERY word she has to say, but if you keep asking questions and getting her to talk that is a good sign…You want to share very little about yourself unless she ask and even then, don’t go into your life story and how you were beaten up as a little kid and your parents left you in a grocery store…she DOES.NOT.CARE. She wants you to turn the conversation around and focus it back on her…
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and if you got a place without tv’s (coffee shop, outdoor eatery, etc) place her so that there are you can people watch… but beware of too much people watching, just the same as too much tv watching… learning to watch without watching is a true skill…
The first three paragraphs of this law could be eliminated (for sexist and generally problematic content). For the essential point here, wouldn’t it be just as helpful for both interlocutors to be tuned in to the other? It’s fun to see where your conversational dynamic might go. I personally love little kid stories and would dig details if it’s a good story. But neither party should be talking more than the other.
yes man everybody should learn the skill of active listening.this skill is more than enough to hook the girls.you have to listen like the purpose of your birth is to listen her story and with 100% attention even though the story is boring and banal repeated number of times.
Not all of us ladies enjoy talking about ourselves on dates. Don’t get me wrong, I love having a good old natter with my friends but when it comes to men, I zip my lips. I give nothing away. Often I don’t even tell them my last name. The less they know about me the better. If a man is expecting me to share my life story with him while he watches the telly, he is sadly mistaken. If I like the fellow then I may tell him my hobbies and a little about my past and family but other than that, the walls are up. If talking about ourselves is the only thing we have to discuss… I execute the exit strategy.
Letting her dribble on and on about herself creates a bond between you and her, and it works wonders if you are actually listening and remember what she has to say. She just wants to be heard so that all of that noise is not in her head, about to make her skull explode. It’s great to actively listen because she is giving you conversation ammunition. All the information she is giving away can be used to continue the conversation if it is about to go cold, and also gives you necessary info about her as a person. She’ll feel bonded to you because she’s giving away a piece of her inner self, and finally has found someone who cares enough to listen and get to know her for the sake of acknowledging her existence instead of just going through the motions so that you can hit that pussy all night long.
It is difficult to keep at it though. Most girls can talk on and on about anything with no real purpose to it all, guys are more direct with their conversation. But we guys can make it bearable by LEADING the conversation. We start the topics, and let her go off on her tangents, picking up little pieces of gold along the way that will help us get to know the chick.