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Man Law #26 – STFU and Let Her Talk…

August 28, 2009 5 comments

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It is not necessary to do ALL the talking in a conversation. All you need to remember is that to a women, the most INTERESTING topic in the world, is herself… The last thing she wants to do is listen to her girlfriends bitch, moan and complain about the men in their life and all of their problems…that’s where you come in my friend. Admittedly, this can be hard to do,

It can be HARD to listen to women...but the alternatives aren't exactly promising...

Her goal is to drive you crazy...the way she does this is through talking...talking...and more talking...Once she has broken you down, you are easy to control...Her Mission has been Accomplished...

so you always want to make sure that if you are at a bar, to place her directly in front of a TV. That way, once she REALLY gets rolling, you can glance up at a UFC highlight and still pretend to listen…Periodically nod your head in agreement with what she has to say….Don’t worry, she’s not going any where with the conversation…

(Editorial Note: The first time I posted this Man Law on Facebook, I received immediate negative feedback…If you need to know NOT to watch television or ignore her while she is talking, then you need more help with women than I can provide…)

Active listening is a skill.  You might not remember EVERY word she has to say, but if you keep asking questions and getting her to talk that is a good sign…You want to share very little about yourself unless she ask and even then, don’t go into your life story and how you were beaten up as a little kid and your parents left you in a grocery store…she DOES.NOT.CARE.  She wants you to turn the conversation around and focus it back on her…

Man Law#25 – Right from the start, the man needs to set an upbeat pace to the conversation. He needs to be ON.

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If she starts attributing you to a low energy individual, she will get bored really easily…If you can’t think of a topic and feel the energy dying, “smile” and leave the conversation altogether, even in mid-sentence if necessary…you can apologize later by saying “I was falling asleep…”.Warning: Might not get you a second date if you two are alone though…Use this pull-away tactic at your own risk…

In all seriousness, it’s a great idea to have an energy drink, work out, and generally get pumped up prior to going out at night or on a date.  I typically leave the discussion topics to come naturally but some buddies of mine used to go as far as writing down on a note card interesting topics…Whatever works for you to keep the conversation going – light, playful, lively, humorous at first…don’t get into discussing abortion, religion, and politics on your first few dates. There will be plenty of time to talk about these things in the future if the two of you decide to continue seeing each other…

Get yourself a cup of this before you go out...GUARANTEED GOOD TIME!

You won't have a problem keeping it UP after a cup of this!

Man Law #24 – Understand and be comfortable with the fact that not everyone is going to like you.

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No matter what you do, some people just won’t like you. Whether its your boss, or the janitor in your building, some people will hold a grudge against your very existence…With relationship to women, not all women are going to like what you have to say.

Competitive yet Playful is a great way to Flirt with her!

Competitive yet playful is a great way to Flirt with her!

All you can do in these situations is state your opinion and leave it open for her to state hers. Whatever you do, don’t simply start agreeing with her because you think it will lead to the bedroom faster. Competitive yet playful disagreement adds excitement to things…

Man Law #23 – Cultivate a sense of humor.

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Women LOVE to laugh. You could look like a cross between quasimodo and Steve Buscemi, but if you make her laugh hysterically, she will remember you forever. Listen to individual stand-up comedians and other public speakers who are entertaining to YOU. That’s great that you can recite verbatim the proof to Fermat’s Last Theorem, but unless the woman you are dating has a Ph.D in Mathematics, chances are she won’t find it interesting. Find a few comedians that you like and study their diction. Just take a look at this video by Dave Chappell and his view on Female Psychology…

Now Dave Chappell is not for everyone, some people should stick to Daniel Packard, watch some of his stand up on YouTube:

If you have iTunes, you can download FREE Standup Podcast that update weekly. Whomever you find funny, you can study, and gradually that humor will become a part of your personality. Witty humor can turnaround any dull conversation…

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