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Man Law #29 – If a woman is difficult at the beginning, chances are she’s not going to get any better. Be able to say “NEXT” and move on!

August 30, 2009 1 comment

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There really isn’t any way to tell if the woman is WRONG for you the first few times you meet her. Many women have their guard up and think that men pretty much are not to be trusted. You can test the waters a bit, but in general, if you feel like you are constantly fighting an uphill battle every time you go out with her, and at the end of the date/interaction, you feel hopeless and confused…she’s not for you.

Some women are aware of this social taboo, and poke fun at it. There are plenty of women who are both very attractive and down to earth. Find them!

Some women are aware of this social taboo, and poke fun at it. There are plenty of women who are both very attractive and down to earth. Find them!

This women is most likely associating a negative previous relationship to you which you have no control over. Perhaps her last boyfriend hurt her and she has begun to associate you with him. It’s not your job to take her BS, at least not at the beginning…After you get married, you’re on your own…

Man Law #28 – THOU SHALT NOT COCKBLOCK THY NEIGHBOR

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Joshua Bernstein, a freelance writer in the New York Press, defined a cockblock as the following in this published article: :

We hope that the new administration brings a "No Cockblocking" Law to the floor of the Supreme Court...

We hope that the new administration brings a "No Cockblocking" Law to the floor of the Supreme Court...

cockblock [n] -( \ˈkäk – bläk\) – “a foul act in which someone interferes with another’s attempt at finding happiness inside someone’s pants.”

Cockblocks are shape shifters and come in all forms and sizes – male, female, black, white, dog, cat, republican and democrat. The most common cockblockers you will encounter are:

#1-The Female Cockblock-This women is an enemy to you. She knows who you want (not her) and will block your advance at all cost. A Wingman is your ally in this situation and he will need to run diversions within the group to keep the female cockblock’s attention on him and not on you. Dan Tolumbro wrote this article on dealing with the Female Cockblock.

#2-The Inadvertent Cockblock-This is a friend of yours who unknowingly talks to you or the girl while you flirt with her. In some cases these can be the worst types of cockblocks because a) you genuinely like this person but he/she has no clue that you are attempting to “close the deal” and b) The inadvertent cockblock might not know anyone at the venue and due to shyness might be sticking by you.  The best way to deal with this is to introduce the inadvertent cockblock to the woman you are speaking with…then “LEAVE”. Yes, that’s right, leave and go somewhere  else so he/she is left to talk with her. Come back a few minutes, or even many conversations later… This can send a subliminal signal to both people that they need to switch places. It’s almost like a form of musical chairs. Again, you must proceed cautiously with this form of cockblocking…

#3-The Conscious Cockblock-The worst kind of cockblock. A “friend” or stranger who consciously interrupts your flirtations with the girl…You need to separate her from this person as soon as possible. If there are games (pool/beer pong/cards) that the two of you can team up on,  tell her you want to play and that you need a partner.  These people are no fun to deal with and you may need to call in the reserves (i.e. Wingman) to deal with the intruder…

Cockblocking is such a prevalent issue in the dating world, I included links to more resources:

Man Law #27 – The Victorian Principle – Nothing makes a woman happier than telling you “YOU’RE WRONG” and that “I’m Different”…

August 29, 2009 2 comments

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STAND YOUR GROUND Gentlemen. Although she will most likely not listen to any reasoning that you have to say, do NOT just apologize immediately and give in to her. Of course, she is different. She has come to her conclusions and opinions on life, just like you, based on what she has seen and her experiences. Listen to her views, but stand your ground, state your opinion, and if necessary shield your face if she’s a slapper…

Print Out and Study this chart!

Print Out and Study this chart!

Now, when she calls you out on being “wrong”, she MOST LIKELY has a lot to say… She might say “You’re Wrong” or “That’s BS” and give you the silent treatment for a bit but the truth is…she wants you to keep asking her questions to draw the answer out of her… This can be tough. You have to create an atmosphere that shows that you will be receptive to what she has to say before she’ll share her answer or why she feels that way. If she truly thinks that you won’t listen, she will not talk.

Even if you "win" the argument...you will "lose" the war...

Even if you "win" the argument...you will "lose" the war...

(Editorial Note: This lesson has been named “The Victorian Principle” after a lovely, young woman, who found it necessary to be the first one to tell me that I was wrong after posting a Man Law that she did not agree with…she did it so often that I formed Man Law #27 and named it in her honor. )

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