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Man Law #22 – Whether the relationship works out or not, you should strive to leave it on good terms with no one getting hurt

August 27, 2009 2 comments

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Some like to say, “Leave her better off than before she met you” but sometimes this is hard to do…if you know that it’s getting serious and that’s just not what you want at this time with her, call it off. She’ll actually respect you more for it.

Don't leave her feeling like this if you can, she might be heartbroken anyway, but Man Up and do it the right way...

Don't leave her feeling like this if you can, she might be heartbroken anyway, but Man Up and do it the right way...

I’m still friends with many girls I used to date and whether they ended it or I did, there is no animosity between us….In fact, they are probably reading some of these laws right now and thinking “This fool wrote this one about me…”…You’re probably right, I did…

Man Law #21 – Maintain The Mystery…

August 27, 2009 4 comments

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The woman needs to be kept on her toes and unsure of where she stands with you especially at the beginning.  If she gets TOO comfortable with you always being there, she will become bored and lose interest faster than you might think. This is simply another way of saying “showing too much interest is a bad thing…”. If she can add you to the daily rotation of guys that she is dating without any “progression” in the relationship, she is

If she knows you will always be there, no matter how ridiculous she acts, she will be gone...Maintain the Mystery...

If she knows you will always be there, no matter how ridiculous she acts, she will leave you for the guy who didn't ask her out last Friday...Maintain the Mystery...

most likely taking you for granted.

She needs to get the impression that at ANY time…at ANNNY time, you can leave and go about your life.  You need to have options. This doesn’t mean you have 4-5 women that you are dating, it means that you have things that are important to you that you are not willing to waste your time playing around with her for…

Man Law #20 – MAKE THE DECISION

August 26, 2009 2 comments

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It’s a woman’s nature to be indecisive, not ours…Make the decision whether its right or wrong. As my grandfather used to say “Often wrong, but NEVER in doubt.” Chances are she will ramble on through every combination and permutation of an event without ever coming to a decision.

This model tells us that  men have about two seconds to decide to approach her...don't miss your opportunity Gentleman, make the decision, go for it...

This model from NY told me that men have about ten seconds to decide to approach her...don't miss your opportunity Gentleman, make the decision, go for it...

She will call her friends and delay having to answer up until the very last moment. Make the decision (if you can) and stand by it. She might not agree or you may have to compromise a bit, but do not simply offer suggestions for her wanting her to decide or stating “its up to you!”. Some women are great at these sorts of things, others need a lot of work in this area…But Man Up and Make the Decision!