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Man Law #21 – Maintain The Mystery…

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The woman needs to be kept on her toes and unsure of where she stands with you especially at the beginning.  If she gets TOO comfortable with you always being there, she will become bored and lose interest faster than you might think. This is simply another way of saying “showing too much interest is a bad thing…”. If she can add you to the daily rotation of guys that she is dating without any “progression” in the relationship, she is

If she knows you will always be there, no matter how ridiculous she acts, she will be gone...Maintain the Mystery...

If she knows you will always be there, no matter how ridiculous she acts, she will leave you for the guy who didn't ask her out last Friday...Maintain the Mystery...

most likely taking you for granted.

She needs to get the impression that at ANY time…at ANNNY time, you can leave and go about your life.  You need to have options. This doesn’t mean you have 4-5 women that you are dating, it means that you have things that are important to you that you are not willing to waste your time playing around with her for…

  1. DJ Long
    August 28, 2009 at 7:36 am

    this also lends back to the need to have her only take up “10%” of your time. keep them wanting more…

  2. Lola
    August 28, 2009 at 12:53 pm

    I think this works both ways. As soon as a guy realizes a girl is there for him 24-7, he gets super turned off.

  3. August 28, 2009 at 1:33 pm

    I think women do this whole “play hard to get thing” a little to readily… It’s as if they want him to jump through hoolahoop after hoolahoop while she figures out if she likes him or not…24-7 is a little bit of a turn off but if planning a date with the other person involves a 20 minute discussion because you both are putting other things in front of the other person, that’s not a turn on either…

  4. So E.Z. a Caveman Could Do It
    November 14, 2010 at 12:44 am

    Why do we love mystery novels and movies? Because we get involved with the story, the experience, we want to know how it unfolds. A crucial part of mystery is creating suspense and tension. You just don’t know what to expect, but you’re eager to find out, but not all at once. It’s like taking the time to savor a good meal. Every little bite counts, and you want to make the moment last forever, not be over in one giant gulp.

    Maintaining an air of mystery sparks curiosity in others. We’re all nosy sons-of-bitches, which is why facebook is so popular. We want to know about everybody’s personal lives, compare it to our own, find out what secrets are being hidden, see people for who they really are and not the masks we put on. Being mysterious compells her to find out more about you.

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