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Man Law #31 – Match the ratio of the target female group to the men in your group.

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Three guys going up to one women will intimidate her – 2:3, men to women, is a good ratio to have in a small group at a bar or club. Unless its a guys night out,  going out in groups of 3+ guys is tough to manage in social situations…

Anything more than 3 and you want to have a women in there somewhere… Mixed crowds are more approachable then single sex ones.  Acknowledge both girls and guys in the group immediately when you approach. If the girl you are showing interest in gets the feeling that her friends are being ignored this will backfire on YOU! If you are one guy going into a group of 3 or more women, you may want to call for backup.  Enter the Wingman…Man Law #32.

  1. August 31, 2009 at 3:21 pm

    Then again… you only need one woman. But you better make sure her friends aren’t bored– she cares what they think. She doesn’t care what you think… yet…

  2. Anonymous
    August 31, 2009 at 3:22 pm

    This is actually a commonly overlooked form of non-verbal communication. Guys like to go out in large groups of guys because they think it makes them look popular or cool, when in reality if you’re they are with just one or two of their buddies it makes them appear to be loyal and trustworthy. Smaller numbers = bigger rewards.

  3. DJ Long
    August 31, 2009 at 4:03 pm

    anytime i’ve gone out in a group of guys we know to split the group into smaller groups, with a set rendez-vous time and location for when the club/bar closes if none are lucky enough to leave early. mostly because we understood that we look less intimidating as a group… if there were 4 – 5, we split to 2 groups… and when one approached, the laid in the cut for a bit before making an entrance to ensure reception into the mix. but the ratio should typically either be equal, or have the women outnumbering the guys… they will have the “upperhand”… also, if the guy you’re with is married or might-as-well-be, this helps your credibility, so long as he states this and then discusses married man issues, like drapes, and pillows and color schemes for bathrooms… =P

  4. RAJA
    December 3, 2009 at 7:51 am


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