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Man Law #36 – “Man Talk” – When you first start dating a new women, KEEP PAST RELATIONSHIPS in the PAST.

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The first few times you go out with her, don’t talk about who you used to date or who she used to date. This may cause her to attribute feelings she felt with her ex – towards you! OR she might place you in the Friends Zone. She might look to you to explain why things didn’t work out with HER ex…this is not where you want to be.

"Wait...How many women did you say you slept with?!?!"

"Wait...How many women did you say you slept with?!?!"

You are here now. If the topic of relationships does come up, ask her what sorts of things shes looking for in a relationship? If she says shes enjoying the single lifestyle, chances are, she’s not looking for anything serious…but if she says she’s tired of men who only want one thing, she’s probably not going to be happy with casual hooking up with no exclusivity…  Keep the conversations lighthearted the first few times you meet her…there will be plenty of chances to talk to her about deep subjects if you two get past the first few dates…

Keep it simple, Make the first few dates SMALL TALK only.

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  1. DJ Long
    September 2, 2009 at 12:23 pm

    Beware of the woman who says she’s not looking for anything serious though. Because some may say they are enjoying their single-ness, but many actually are looking for someone to settle-in with… I’m not saying settle-down, but someone to date exclusivly with the option for BF/GF status. Also, she may give hints in her introduction about why she is single, clue in on these (means you’ll actually have to listen), if she even alludes to a quasi-recent “relationship” or “the guy was seeing others” it’s because she does enjoy her “singularity” but not as much as she does hoping to snag a guy… If you need to state clearly upfront your intended position with regard to seeking or not seeking a more stable partnership… be aware of what and how you say things…

  2. Morris Allen
    September 10, 2010 at 8:25 am

    1 comment for line no even space untill comments and comments…. Your comment about something, i suggest too be it more long as possible Ur1: hxxp://yourwebsite{com} (don’t even use the stadard format or you will be detected from anti-spam)

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