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Man Law #1 – If you’re dumb enough to pay for her drinks, she’s smart enough to take them!


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Even if she is wearing this shirt...do NOT buy her a drink!!

Buying drinks for the woman will not impress her and while she might say “yes” and gladly “thank you”, she will secretly place you in the “sucker” category. The “sucker” category is where you don’t want to be and its basically where she places men that she is not interested in but can lightly flirt with to manipulate. It should be stated for the record, that this is only when paying for drinks such as at a bar and does not include freely provided drinks at a party. However, be careful not to become her personal man servant, only offer to get her a drink at a party, if you have already decided to get one first.

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  1. albena
    November 5, 2009 at 4:57 pm

    This I disagree with. A woman that knows her worth will want to see if you have the manners and gentlemen skills to “take care of her” and be “hospitable” if you don’t offer us a drink we may think you’re cheap and then you’ll never see us again! Its not that I can’t buy my own drink but that I want to know that you’re being considerate and thinking of my needs as well…so this rule can go out the door. IF you wanna comment on what I said feel free check out my profile on facebook albena anguelova

  2. Zie
    January 29, 2010 at 4:49 am

    This article only scratches the surface of what is going on here.

    “Buy me a drink” is a shit test.

    See man law #13

    Buying her a drink is like trying to buy her attention. Don’t do it.

    If she says “fetch” and you do it, she will lose all respect for you as a man, you good little doggy!

    Be a gentleman, not a doormat. Make her earn that drink first, free or not. Reward her for qualifying herself to you, and both of your drinks will taste better.

    “…gentlemen skills to “take care of her” and be “hospitable” if you don’t offer us a drink we may think you’re cheap and then you’ll never see us again!”
    ^ This is what we call a Gold Digger. Pity them, and keep your wallet in your pocket.

  3. Nat
    February 1, 2010 at 2:47 am

    “…gentlemen skills to “take care of her” and be “hospitable” if you don’t offer us a drink we may think you’re cheap and then you’ll never see us again!”
    ^ This is what we call a Gold Digger. Pity them, and keep your wallet in your pocket.

    Never heard that buying a drink for a lady classifies her as a Gold Digger! This is some new theory here. In this case most of female population are already in this category…
    A drink may cost $5-$20 and if a lady doesn’t like a guy, she just won’t accept it anyway. Any lady could afford a drink when she goes out and some are taking Cola if they don’t have enough money. No big deal. Ladies don’t accept all drinks offered to them just bcs it’s a free one. It’s a nonsense to believe otherwise.
    So the rule doesn’t work indeed.

    • February 1, 2010 at 7:56 am

      Nat, while I wouldn’t go as far as to say that buying a woman a drink classifies her as a “Gold Digger”, I WILL say that there is a large selection of women who will accept your advances knowing that they are not interested in you to begin with. The act of buying a drink is simply one of these ways. It’s showing that you are interested in them and if they accept, then she is saying “Yes, I might be interested”. There are plenty of women who are out there who WILL ACCEPT your drink knowing before hand that she is not interested (i.e. boyfriend, husband, whatever) in you. Specifically, the Law is stating, save your money, and use conversation to grow this interest. IF she did not come out with money to pay for herself, she shouldn’t be out. For the record, I have absolutely bought women drinks, however, its not to score points or impress her, its merely out of courtesy and I may be enjoying the conversation. However, there are also a fair amount of women that grow suspicious of guys who buy them drinks believing that the “Guy is trying to get me drunk.” But thats another story. Thanks for commenting Nat.

      Zie, I’m glad you understand where I’m going with this. I agree with you completely. None of these Laws are meaning to disrespect women in any way. It’s really meant to weed out those that might not have your best interest in mine and are only interested on what they can receive out of their relationship with you. The idea, which I can tell you already understand, is that she needs to prove herself to you before you start taking care of her and going the extra mile for her needs.

  4. Herbie Le.
    July 23, 2011 at 5:40 am

    I LOve You Albena……Will U Marry M3??

    Dj Dee *DM1 aka Herbie Le. 615-3335

    facebook @Herbie Max

    Viva La Bulgari!!

    • October 1, 2011 at 3:31 am

      Goodluck with that one, Herbie. I happen to know her!

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