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Man Law #2 – If she ask for your number, but won’t give you hers…chances are, she’s just NOT that into you…


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Whilst this might seem like she is interested in you, if you walk away from the encounter without her phone number…YOU.HAVE.NOTHING. Even with a number does not promise that you will ever see her again. How many numbers do you have sitting in your phone that you never call? Chances are a lot.

An interested woman will OFFER her number to you in most cases. For instance, if she says “Do you want my number?” or “Why don’t you take my number”, she WANTS to see you again. That might not lead anywhere physical but you have done a good job with peaking her interest. Her number should leap out of her mouth and into your phone. That is to say, if you get her number by asking for it, this does not mean that she is not interested in you. However, the ideal situation is for her to offer her number to you without you having to ask or initiate any further contact.

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  1. October 28, 2010 at 6:05 am

    I disagree with this completely. I never offer my number out. I always wait for the gentleman to ask for it or offer me his. I have three very good reasons for this:
    1. Men love the chase. If he doesn’t ask for my number he’s clearly not chasing so I’m not going to waste my time.
    2. I don’t want my number in the phone of every man I meet. If he wants it that much, he will ask for it. If I like him, I will enter it into his phone myself.
    3. I feel it looks slightly desperate to just offer your number out. Playing hard to get is much smoother (see point 1.) Do you really want to be playing games with a girl who offers her number out willy-nilly?

  2. Sleepy
    January 5, 2012 at 12:44 pm

    some problems with the rules

    1) yes some of us (guys) love the chase but just because we don’t ask for your number doesn’t mean that we are not interested.
    no problem with 2
    3) Some times it does and sometimes it doesn’t its all in how phrase it. And sometimes you do want to play games with the girl who hands out her number willy-nilly it doesn’t make her any different then the girl who made you jump through hopes for it.

  1. December 17, 2009 at 12:35 pm
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