Man Law #3 – Few things worse can happen to a man than one-itis.
What is one-itis you ask? It’s when you have fallen hard for one woman that usually has shown no reciprocal interest in you. You give explanations and rationals for her actions when in actuality she doesn’t like you or like you enough. There is no cure for one-itis except absolutely cutting yourself off from her. Intervention may be required. Possibly the most DANGEROUS aspect of one-itis is the fact that the man infected by this disease does not know he has it. It will often take more than one person to bring him out of his stupor before realizing that he has passed up MANY opportunities because he has been focused on just one woman who has not promised him or shown any interest back to him. If you see a fellow man with one-itis, it is YOUR MAN DUTY, to call him out.
I was actually taught how to avoid this by an awesome woman who will remain nameless. She said the sure fire way to not fall in love with someone is to always date 3 at a time. Now if you do want to pursue a serious relationship you can, but in this way you will not appear desperate (which makes you much more attractive). As well as protects from the all too painful heartache of the non-reciprocal love.
Most women don’t want you to know or do this so that women who told you this truly IS an awesome women…I’ve heard it stated pretty bluntly “When you want them, they don’t want you…”. I think its important not to be OVERLY eager no matter how attractive she is (and that is hard to do)…